Wedlock or Deadlock, 11-14- 2010

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Today's sermon is based on 1Peter 3:1-7 which reads:

 1Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

Sermon Notes

“Wedlock Or Deadlock”

I.          Why is there controversy over these and similar verses?

II.        What is marriage?

III.       “What if my husband is a jerk?”

IV.      “Why are there six verses for wives and only one for husbands?”

V.        “What is submission?”

VI.      What is the goal of submission?

VII.     “What is meant by “adornment?”

VIII.    “What if I’m not a quiet person by nature?”

IX.      “What is the weaker partner?”

X.        What is God asking of husbands

A.   Create a life with your wife

B.   Be considerate

C.Respect her as a partner

NOW WHAT?

1. Trust God enough to obey Him

2.  Love your spouse